We can never be too vigilant in protecting our loved ones!
Inform children that it is wrong for adults to engage children in sexual activity…PERIOD!
Make an effort to know the people with whom your child is spending time.
Teach your children about their bodies and give them the correct language to use. Emphasize that private parts are private.
Make sure you know where each of your children is at all times. Make it a rule that your children check in with you when they arrive at or depart from a particular location and when there is a change in plans.
Never leave children unattended in an automobile, whether it is running or not.
Be involved in your children’s activities.
Listen to your children. Pay attention if they tell you that they do not want to be with someone or go somewhere.
Notice when someone shows your children a great deal of attention or begins giving them gifts.
Teach your children that they have the right to say no to any unwelcome, uncomfortable or confusing touch or actions by others.
Be sensitive to any changes in your children’s behavior or attitude.
Screen baby-sitters and caregivers.
Remember that there is no substitute for your attention and supervision. Being available and taking time to really know and listen to your children helps build feelings of safety and security.
Also remember that in the vast majority of cases (up to 90 percent) children are molested by someone they know. Your efforts at keeping your child safe must be informed by this fact and not focused exclusively on the danger that strangers may present.